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Life is short, have a scandal!
We will all expire one day.
I want to stay fresh in the meantime, I do that by being sexy.
Life isn't about how many breaths you take,
but the amount of times you the Her breath away!
Why live for even one moment beneath your capacity to enjoy life?
It will all be said about you, and the people that said it will one day die and be forgotten.
Society, Family, Religion all tie us down to the way they want us to be for their benefit, as long as you're not hurting anyone too badly... then go for it, take the risk, pay the price and enjoy the ride while you can. Love beyond limits without attachment. That's Tantra.
My Tantra Journey
When I was 19, like most teenage boys I was a victim of, what I call "the Triangle of sedation."
These are the 3 addictions of choice for young Men, Video-Games, Sugar and Porn.
One night I began my online browser search for a new novel Porn video.
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I somehow came across something called "Tantric massage", it was a video of a very attractive Spanish woman pleasuring a male with a piece of fabric and then very slowly performing a Lingam massage on him. I felt there was something different about it, but I wasn't sure what.
The video moved along at an unusually slow pace for a Porn video but I didn't click away to something more rapidly satisfying like I was accustomed too. I Kept coming back to that video, not really knowing why I enjoyed the slower pace of it.
Eventually I forgot about it went back to my usual ways. At around this time I was fighting my Sugar and Junk Food habits so I could build muscle and feel like I was a strong man. I was sick of being skinny and challenged at school. I was never seriously bullied because my personality was strong , but being skinny also drew ridicule from females.
Eventually I quit the sugar, gained significant amounts of muscle and strength but remained addicted to Video-Games and Porn. At around age 24 I moved away from home to start a Business, a Family Day Care. I was great with kids because my Parents decided to have 11 and I was first. The main benefit was too move out, away from my mother who is a classic clinical Narcissist.
OSHO
One day I was at my cousin's house and I saw a picture of a bearded man with a Quote of something I don't remember.
I asked him about and he shared a few details that interested me.
At this point, for a while, I had been questioning Christianity, My parents religion and weighing it up against the Big Bang Theory. Evolution and Christianity didn't satisfy me and I stayed unsure for a while.
Eventually I started watching OSHO videos. The things he said just made sense to me. It wasn't easy to understand what he was saying but something told me that he's got it.
From an early age, Bruce Lee inspired me,. It wasn't just his physical prowess and 'Bad-Assery' but his Taoist philosophies such as " Be water, my friend" that got me to listen.
After about a year of running the family day care, something was wrong. I was making plenty of money but I was unhappy. I searched for "Motivation" on Youtube and came across Les Brown's motivational content, then It led me to Zig Ziglar and Tony Robbins. I was so fascinated by their content that I even took time to read a book! that was time I could have spent playing Video-Games! A cousin of mine put me onto Jim Rohn and that rounded out my motivation, I was on fire. As Art Williams said "my butt's always burning!"
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I quit my lucrative Family Day Care business, found a room in a sharehouse in Taylors lakes and started a Personal Training business. I had blown my savings at this point, so It was pretty much do or fail. I had to sell myself to potential clients, call them on the phone, convince them to pay me significant amounts of money.
This was nerve wrecking for me as I was a natural introvert.
​I was forced to learn a skill called "Sales" and boy did I learn! the management of the GYM were questioning how I was gaining so many clients so fast. I thought "Am I really that good?". The answer turned out to be YES, I am that good, but again something was wrong, I was getting burned out from waking up super early and training clients late at night but there was more to it than just, not enough sleep.
Tantric Training
In 2008 I found a Tantric course and studied it. Then I began practicing Tantric Massage techniques on the woman I was dating at the time. Good feedback. I started talking to people in the GYM about it, I managed to pull a few ladies into my room in the shared house I was living in.
​I serviced these women for free as practice. These sessions changed my perspective on sex completely. One woman taught me about abuse, male expectations and what I now know is "Anorgasmia" an inability for women to reach Orgasm.
Another woman told me that I had cured her inability to Orgasm, she had been trying to Orgasm for years before our session and then she orgasmed and squirted for the first time. She later reported a heightened sex drive, and that was embarrassing her. She said she was now so sensitive, that she had Orgasms triggered simply from Urination. I was a bit scared when she asked " what have you done to me! my mother ran to the door when I started moaning in the bathroom". Another woman reported a sexual awakening, she vividly described how, after our session, she had more sex in one weekend than she has had her whole life.
I began to think, I can charge for this, I am good at this, but where to advertise? What are the laws? turns out advertising this kind of service is very difficult, for very good reasons. There are a lot of creeps out there pretending to do " Tantra" and "Yoni Massage" but just want to molest women.
​Couple's Tantric experience
​After advertising I got my first couple's session, it completely changed my perspective when I brought a woman to climax in front of her apathetic husband. It changed my ideas about relationships and marriage. Over 10 years I serviced this couple a few times. Over years I knew them. They had 2 children and were still happily married, "how can that be?" I thought. I was taught marriage ONLY works if it's completely Monogamous.
Puberty and Enlightenment.
When I was about 14, around the time I was hitting puberty, something happened to me. I became confident, I began looking adults and girls in the eye and introducing myself with a strong voice. It was a shock to everyone who knew me. I remember someone commented "What happened to him". I had way less fear and almost no ability to be embarrassed anymore. I now know, looking back while writing this that I experienced a mild enlightenment event. I haven't experienced such a change since then.
​​Once I took some marijuana edibles and felt my spine light up with electricity, a similar feeling to what people describe to be a "Kundalini awakening"
When all the Chakra's open up and Shakti rises up through the spine and Meets with Shiva in the Crown Chakra.
Even after multiple Magic mushroom trips, (which where enlightening in many ways) I haven't since experienced such an upgrade, so my search continues through Tantra.
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After 8 years of performing Tantric massage in Melbourne I have come to a signature style. A style that represents my soul. I've looked around and there is nothing like it available, so that gave me an idea. Why not become a guru and teach others how to perform it?
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There a problem in Western Countries with the sex, health and wellness space, they over emphasizes feminine energy and demonise Masculine energy. Well I'm here to help people understand Divine Masculinity.
My dream is to build a Tantric Pleasure Temple in Melbourne and all over the world. It will be a place that Women can go to seek pleasure based tantric healing without shame or stigma. Couples could also find ways to invigorate their sexual desire for each other. It will also be a school that will teach practitioners my style of Tantric massage experience sessions.
​It's early days now but I feel that this spiritual business will grow rapidly in a short space of time and my challenge is to be ready for it. I know I won't be, that's the fun of life.
My Signature Tantra
See you soon!
Since 2018, I’ve helped my clients break through the obstacles that seem to be holding them back in life. Life's too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled. I am here to help my clients achieve a more positive outlook on life, and provide them with all the tools necessary to get them there. Be brave enough to let me help you with Tantra.